love

No sooner was the Christmas merchandise moved over to the half off rack, but Valentine’s Day rolled out for all to buy.  Over the past month and a half everything seems to have taken on a pink and red heart-shaped hue.  it’s official, Saint Valentine’s Day is unavoidable (at least in the drug store).

I’m a lover of love, and a believer that love is boundless and immeasurable.

Valentine’s Day primarily represents intimate love and unfortunately this seems to leave many of us feeling dissatisfied. In the event you are in a great relationship that’s brimming with trust and love these universal truths still apply but I’m really reaching out to those of you who feel like you are suffering because you are alone. If you find yourself alone, without a lover or going through a breakup Valentine’s Day can become another day to be survived.

Instead of devaluing the magnitude of love and it’s infinite possibilities by celebrating with unmet expectations and obligatory boxes of chocolate, I would much prefer Saint Valentine give love it’s due by becoming a celebration of the infinite energy of love.  But I’m not in charge, so I am writing to remind you that you don’t need a partner or GF or BF to feel love.

I want to help you re-frame your definition of love and shift the way you go about creating and attracting love into your life.

I want to help you re-frame the way you experience love.

What is love?

Love is the creative sustaining force that drives the universe.

Love is sheer power.

Love is everything, love is everywhere.

There is no lack when it comes to love, there is only love.

Love is infinite, it is always there for us to tap into, always present, always abundant.

Please remember this on Valentine’s Day. Don’t think small when it comes to love.  Set a strong intention, make a commitment to rise above the banality of the desire to drop into self-pity.  As opposed to focusing on what you think you don’t have focus on – celebrating the energy of love and all of it’s abundance.  Give yourself love.  Give your friends and family love.  Be wealthy when it comes to love, and love will return to you tenfold.

Love is everything.  There is nothing else.  Live this truth and you will never be alone.

My want for you is that you can anchor in these universal truths.  Master the art of generating love from the inside out, so you never have to experience lack when it comes to the subject of love.  There are many pieces to this puzzle but you can start to feel better immediately when you remember that you are not alone.  The universe is filled with love (not the drugstore kind).  It is always there for you, all you have to do is shift your perspective of love an change the way you generate, receive and give love.

No sooner was the Christmas merchandise moved over to the half off rack, but Valentine’s Day rolled out for all to buy.  Over the past month and a half everything seems to have taken on a pink and red heart-shaped hue.  it’s official, Saint Valentine’s Day is unavoidable (at least in the drug store).

I’m a lover of love, and a believer that love is boundless and immeasurable.

Valentine’s Day primarily represents intimate love and unfortunately this seems to leave many of us feeling dissatisfied. In the event you are in a great relationship that’s brimming with trust and love these universal truths still apply but I’m really reaching out to those of you who feel like you are suffering because you are alone. If you find yourself alone, without a lover or going through a breakup Valentine’s Day can become another day to be survived.

Instead of devaluing the magnitude of love and it’s infinite possibilities by celebrating with unmet expectations and obligatory boxes of chocolate, I would much prefer Saint Valentine give love it’s due by becoming a celebration of the infinite energy of love.  But I’m not in charge, so I am writing to remind you that you don’t need a partner or GF or BF to feel love.

I want to help you re-frame your definition of love and shift the way you go about creating and attracting love into your life.

I want to help you re-frame the way you experience love.

What is love?

Love is the creative sustaining force that drives the universe.

Love is sheer power.

Love is everything, love is everywhere.

There is no lack when it comes to love, there is only love.

Love is infinite, it is always there for us to tap into, always present, always abundant.

Please remember this on Valentine’s Day. Don’t think small when it comes to love.  Set a strong intention, make a commitment to rise above the banality of the desire to drop into self-pity.  As opposed to focusing on what you think you don’t have focus on – celebrating the energy of love and all of it’s abundance.  Give yourself love.  Give your friends and family love.  Be wealthy when it comes to love, and love will return to you tenfold.

Love is everything.  There is nothing else.  Live this truth and you will never be alone.

My want for you is that you can anchor in these universal truths.  Master the art of generating love from the inside out, so you never have to experience lack when it comes to the subject of love.  There are many pieces to this puzzle but you can start to feel better immediately when you remember that you are not alone.  The universe is filled with love (not the drugstore kind).  It is always there for you, all you have to do is shift your perspective of love an change the way you generate, receive and give love.

Life Coach T.C. Conroy’s T-10 Tips For  Success in 2011

With the acceleration and scope of change that has been taking place over the past few years, most of us are feeling beat up, beat down and in a state of (what’s next) long term overwhelm.  I am here to remind you with great change comes great opportunity.

This is my T-10 list for beating the recession blues, setting strong intentions and becoming a richer human being.  I hope it energizes and inspires you to stop waiting for permission and step into your personal power.

Celebrate the new decade by intending your greatness in 2011.

It’s not about the money. Everything on this list is FREE the only cost to you is your willingness and dedication (intention) the ROI knows no limit.

Wishing you a Happy New Year, Happy New Decade!

T.C. Conroy

1. Identify your true values – If the recession has taught us nothing I hope it has reminded you what is truly important and valuable to you and yours. Live your life according to your true values and you will be a happier person.

2. Connect to the power of your intentions – You are a powerful creator.  You create with every thought you think, every word you speak and every feeling that you feel when you believe in your own power and live in it’s truth you can exert your power to achieve your greatness.

3. Anchor in the lessons from the past decade -You can not get to where you are going without acknowledging where you have been.  Sit down and write out all of the life changing lessons you have learned in the past ten years so you don’t forget and have to learn them twice.

4. Let go of judgment – Judgment creates division.

Practice non-judgment and acceptance with every person place and thing that crosses your path.  With consistency you will be amazed at how liberating this is.

Set the intention to greet every person place and thing with love and compassion not judgment.

5. Cancel the pity party – Victim energy does NOT serve you in any way.  It keeps you stuck and it grantees your failure. Learn to rise above and let go of the part of you that wants’ to be victimized. Take responsibility for everything that shows up in your life, this is where your true power resides.

6. Open your heart – We are bombarded by fear based thoughts and feelings that shut us down.  You can open your heart with this simple meditation – place the index and middle finger of your left hand over your heart and smile allow your fears and insecurities to melt away.  You can’t help but feel better.  Do this meditation for two or three minutes a day and build from there.

7. Unplug and Connect – unplug from the non stop stimulation that we are assaulted with every day.  Power down your electronics and connect to your self.  Take pause long enough to hear the voice inside of your head, feel your feelings connect to yourself.  Your power resides on the inside from that connection send your intentions out into the world.

8. Visualize yourself as prosperous, luminous, healthy, and full of peace, joy and success. If you BELIEVE that you are, you will be.

9. State your intention before your feet hit the floor- Your thoughts words and feeling all have incredible power behind them, make the choice to use them well by intending your actions each day before you get out of bed in the morning.

10. You deserve it, learn to receive – you can ask all you want and you may even successfully manifest.   The very thing you are asking for may show up right in front of you but you will fall short if you are not open to receiving because you feel on some level that you don’t deserve what you are asking for.

11. The Universe is abundant, it knows no bounds when you practice abundance you too will be limitless.

During my drive to the office yesterday I was listening to Led Zeppelin on my crappy car stereo. You know when you have those moments that a song just rocks you so hard? Well that happened, (always feels sooo good). I want to say the song was Whole Lotta Love, but truth be told I can’t remember what song it was.

Last night I was having a hard time getting to sleep, that seems to be happening a lot this week and it’s a frustrating four in the morning before sleep finally comes. I only sleep for a few hours but my dreams are amazing!

I have this dream that I am at a picnic/barbeque situation where there are these stairs that everyone is walking up and down.  While I am walking up the stairs Jimmy Page and Robert Plant are walking down the stairs.  At the moment that Jimmy and I pass each other on the stairway we lock eyes and he peers into my soul.  His piercing eyes were so powerful and it felt soooo good. The dream goes on — as dreams have a tendency to do.  Jimmy and Robert stayed at the party for a while and everyone had a good time.

When I woke up this morning and remembered my dream, I thought it odd that Jimmy assumed the starring role as I have always been more of a Robert Plant girl. I remember the first time I met Robert out in front of the Sunset Marquis in 1980-something and I can recall every interaction we have had since. Robert leaves an indelible impression with his British wit and rock star charm.  I did a tour with Joan Jett in the late 80’s while she did an opening stint for one of Robert Plant’s side projects.  It was a thrill from start to finish, knowing that I was in the presence of such rock and roll greatness and getting to watch Robert’s show every night.  (Not to mention Joan Jett’s performance — she’s no scrub herself — but that’s another story all together.)  My point is: I have no history with Jimmy Page have only met him once in passing and he’s not really a person I think about.  How did he get to be the star of my dream, and who gave him permission to pierce my soul?

I know that I have been processing through dream in a very powerful way lately; I believe we all do, although some of us are more conscious of it than others, and then there are those who simply don’t remember their dreams.

So what does Jimmy Page represent?  He represents a guitar God, a masculine power. I feel in this instance he was representing MANHOOD.  I believe when Jimmy Paige looked into my soul he was inviting me in, not to hang out but to graduate from the relationships I have been having with men.  An invitation to step into my power and grow.  Permission to focus my intentions in such a powerful way that I will finally call forth the partnership that I have been craving.  Jimmy and I also passed, (bye bye), a few other people on the stairs whose names shall go unmentioned. I know this dream represents an opportunity for me.  An opportunity to break old patterns and let go of the past.

Thank you Jimmy Page for showing me the door to my partnership power!

The universe always gives us the opportunity to grow.  We never know how it will show up or who will bring it, but it is always there right in front of us.

Set the intention to see everything that shows up in your life as an opportunity.  This is the next step on the stairway to your personal power.

After writing this post I looked up “stairs” in the dream dictionary and this is what I found:

Staircase
To see a staircase in your dream, symbolizes change and transformation.

Stairs
To dream that you are walking up a flight of stairs, indicate that you are achieving a higher level of understanding. You are making progress into your spiritual, emotional or material journey. The dream is also analogous to material and thoughts that are coming to the surface.